OOTD: my kid just turned 4 😱

Hey my freaky darlings, hope you’re all doing well 💕

As of yesterday I am officially the mother of a 4 year old... that just seems crazy to me!
We had an absolutely lovely day and she was spoiled rotten, of course 😏
She had nursery in the morning then in the afternoon we went over to my mums house for presents, mc Donald’s and cake 🍰
Usually the family would come round to our house since we have more space and my mums dogs can get a little... excited when AJ comes over and Marley weighs almost twice what she does but they’re getting better with her the more we go. Since mum had her leg amputated back in February she has been bed bound waiting on her prosthetic, it’s taking a little longer than usual since there were some complications with her wound healing. Yesterday however we managed to get mum out of the house! She bought AJ a bike as her “big present” and was sad she wouldn’t get to see her ride it. Mum can transfer in to her wheelchair easily enough the problem is there is a bit of a step at the front and back door that make getting outside a little difficult but I told her there was 6 adults there, we’d get her out! And we did! We went to the car park behind her house and watched AJ ride her new bike around and I did a couple of laps pushing mum, bit strange to be the one behind a wheelchair for a change!

Hat: Boohoo

Sunglasses: Amazon (similar)

Crop top: Boohoo - sold out

Romper: Amazon size 24-26

Cover up: eBay size xl

Sandals: Amazon

OOTD: Leopard print and thigh high boots

Hello my freaky darlings!
Hope you’re all having a marvellous Friday 😊

Guys, I’m excited! I’ve been sleeping on the floor for like over a month now because my bed broke but my new one is getting put up tomorrow! My back is so happy 😂
Aaaanyway, can we talk about the boots for a second? I found them on stall at a music festival about 8 years ago, my size and stretchy enough to fit my fat legs?!! SOLD! They actually go all the way up to my *ahem* I mean, I am only 4ft 11...so I fold them under, and they’d fit legs quite a big bigger than mine too.
I’ve done some extensive googling and managed to find the same ones (pleaser electra 3000) online and I’ll link them down below.

Jacket: forever 21, sold out. Similar

Tank top: eBay size 2XL

Leggings: eBay size 24-26

Boots: Fruugo

Throw back OOTD: leather harness

So... I had planned a makeup tutorial for today, spent all afternoon doing my makeup and taking pictures (I even made a video this time!) plus taking outfit pictures for a post on Monday, sat down to start editing and writing, put my memory card down and POOF! It’s vanished! Jay and I have torn the house apart and can’t find it anywhere 😭 a whole afternoons work gone.
I wanted to get SOMETHING up today though so I’m doing another throw back outfit.

 Mesh top: Ebay size 20

Velvet Bralette: Pink clove size 22

Velvet Shorts: Etsy  size 3x

Fishnets: Ebay size xl

Boots: Fetish footwear

Harness: Amazon size 20-24

OOTD: casual/mum goth

Hello my freaky darlings!
Hope you’re all well this afternoon, I’m currently recovering from a nasty sickness bug and still feeling rather delicate, the joys of having a toddler in nursery and an immune system that doesn’t function is that I get every illness going 😖

When I’m low on spoons but have to get dressed I go for something super simple but still true to my aesthetic, leggings are an absolute must!
I’m currently working on a post for 25 essential items for  a plus size alt girl capsule wardrobe and black leggings are the first on the list!

Top: Amazon size XXL

Cardigan: Amazon Size XXL 

Shoes: Amazon  Size 6

I can’t find a link for the necklace I’m afraid and the leggings are from primark, size 20.

OOTD: Dark Fairy

Good afternoon my freaky darlings!

Hope you're all having a wonderful sunday.
I headed out to the local park today to take my daughters 4th birthday portraits... 4th... 4... FOUR! 😱Shes growing up too fast someone please make it stop 😭
The weather was NOT on our side however and we spent a good portion of time huddled in the band stand.
We made the most of it though and managed to take some lovely pictures and since we had a change of clothes for her AJ decided to brave getting all soggy at the playground for a bit before we retreated to the cafe for some shelter and a bite to eat, she had chocolate ice-cream from a local dairy and I had a scone, Lovely!

So anyway, the outfit.
This dress it actually two dresses disguised as one dress.
I love the lace bell sleeves on the first dress but I was feeling a maxi dress today and the lace one hits just above the knee so I threw this lovely floaty maxi on over the top and chucked this funky corset style belt on in the middle.
The flower crown was actually for my daughter as part of her birthday pictures but she wanted to take it off after a while and I decided it actually went quite well with this look, giving it a dark gothic fairy princess vibe.
Sadly I can't link to the lace dress as I got it second hand a few years ago but I did find a bell sleeve lace bolero that would have the same effect that I will link down below.

dispite the rain I think we ended up having a rather lovely day.

Lace Bolero: Amazon

Black Maxi Dress: Aliexpress size 4xl, could of sized down.

Belt: Amazon size X-large

Flower crown: Amazon

OOTD: festival season

Hello my freaky darlings!
Okay so I might not actually be going to any festivals this year 😭 but I can still dress for the occasion right?? My last festival was actually sonisphere waaay back in 2014 😱
Oh what I wouldn’t give to be back in a muddy field drinking warm lager for breakfast.

Now I would love to link you to the t-shirt I'm wearing but I got it second hand many many years ago so I'll just link one like it.

Top: Jack Daniels t-shirt 

Tights: fishnets size xl

Boots: Demonia Posion 101

The hair clips are unfortunately sold out but they came from PastelDreamShoes on etsy

Throw back OOTD

Hello my freaky darlings!

One of the big reasons behind starting this blog was the constant questions I would get on instagram regarding my outfits, questions like "omg where did you get that top??" "what size do you order from x company" "what is the fit like" and so on.
I'm hoping to post old ootd's from instagram perhaps once a week or so and including more information on them; I'm starting with one of my more resent ones.

 I waited over a year for this top to come back in stock on killstar and when I finally got my hands on it I wasn't convinced I liked it on me, it is VERY oversized and comes down past my knees on my 4ft 11 self but determined to make it work I tucked one side into my leggings, its amazing how something so simple can completely transform a look.
I paired it with these wetlook leggings from boohoo which I will link down below however I would not recommend them unless you have access to a sewing machine and know how to use it or have 20" ankles, the fit on these was absolutly rediculous and I had to take the legs in conciderably.

Top: Morte Mistress tunic
Leggings: Plus Matte PU high waisted leggings size 24
Boots: Broom Rider Boots [VELVET]  size 6
Necklace: Silver Tone Triple Goddess Statement Necklace